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Posted by: Luchiano Apr 20 2009, 11:33 PM
To change your hair color or hairstyle would you?

Posted by: Mary Poppins Apr 22 2009, 09:48 AM
Probably not.

Posted by: Miss Dippy Apr 23 2009, 06:54 AM
oh hell no maryluvs_ohnoyoudidnt.gif .... my hair is my glory , you will take me as i am. maryluvs_happy.gif

If i let him do that.... what next would he ask me to change maryluvs_sad.gif control is a bitch!

Posted by: Luchiano Apr 23 2009, 10:53 AM
But don't most women dress, look and act a certain way to appeal to men. If You had a real good man and all he did was ask you to wear your hair differently you wouldn't?

Posted by: Miss Dippy Apr 24 2009, 08:32 AM
QUOTE (Luchiano @ Apr 23 2009, 02:43 PM)
But don't most women dress, look and act a certain way to appeal to men. If You had a real good man and all he did was ask you to wear your hair differently you wouldn't?

no i wouldn't maryluvs_smh.gif .... it is so unessesary for him to change the way i look when he found me this way. Why would he want to mould my image to be what he wants?? if he is not happy with the way i look makes me question if i am my hair clothes and shoes to him .... my image is important to me thats why I take such matters very serious when someone feels they have a right to alter how you look to fit them and society!!!
A real woman knows who she is and that reflects alot in her clothes and poise , her hair is a true example of her charactor and strength and normaly is the voice of how she feels deep down in her emotions..... ask any Lady here they will tell you...when anything happens in our life, we change our hair as a statement of how we feel good or bad. If your hair is how you want it, you feel you are the most beautiful woman in the world and thats a reflection to my soul. So no i do not have an image based on attracting a man but makeing myself feel happy.

I could take constructive critisisam if i get it wrong or loose myself, but it should be up to me if i wanna change it. maryluvs_happy.gif

Posted by: Wee Tony Apr 24 2009, 12:08 PM
This reminds me of Mandy from Shameless maryluvs_sad.gif maryluvs_giggle.gif

Posted by: seraphim Apr 24 2009, 02:16 PM
QUOTE (Mrs. So Flyy @ Apr 22 2009, 08:38 AM)
Probably not.

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Posted by: No One Will Do Apr 26 2009, 02:39 PM
QUOTE (Luchiano @ Apr 23 2009, 09:43 AM)
But don't most women dress, look and act a certain way to appeal to men. If You had a real good man and all he did was ask you to wear your hair differently you wouldn't?

maryluvs_hmm.gif Sometimes, I may or may not just depends. If what he wants as far as a hairstyle which is temporary I would and have rocked something he likes specifically for a min... maryluvs_smile.gif

Posted by: Miss Dippy Apr 28 2009, 01:24 PM
QUOTE (Kiki Rose @ Apr 26 2009, 06:29 PM)
maryluvs_hmm.gif Sometimes, I may or may not just depends. If what he wants as far as a hairstyle which is temporary I would and have rocked something he likes specifically for a min... maryluvs_smile.gif

maryluvs_smh.gif i still wub you though maryluvs_sad.gif

Posted by: No One Will Do Apr 30 2009, 09:17 PM
QUOTE (Miss Dippy @ Apr 28 2009, 12:14 PM)
maryluvs_smh.gif i still wub you though  maryluvs_sad.gif

unsure.gif Thanx sugar luv you too! Right now I'm rockin a another Bob shorter than the Rhianna one which he hates but I've had it for about 2 mos so which puts me back at my original response of "sometimes just depends." I guess I'm really not seeing this as a big deal maybe because we have similar taste and in general I think relationships are about give and take on both ends i.e. he's cut his mustache for me once because I said I wanted to see what he looked like, as well as changed up his hair cut I mean just hair it'll grow back. maryluvs_dunno.gif

Posted by: Josh May 2 2009, 03:55 PM
QUOTE (X-Factor @ Apr 21 2009, 06:23 AM)
To change your hair color or hairstyle would you?

Oh most def. Its not easy to find a good fucker, let alone a man to take home.

Posted by: Rhapsody In Blue May 8 2009, 08:22 AM
QUOTE (Kiki Rose @ Apr 26 2009, 09:29 PM)
maryluvs_hmm.gif Sometimes, I may or may not just depends. If what he wants as far as a hairstyle which is temporary I would and have rocked something he likes specifically for a min... maryluvs_smile.gif

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Its not much of a big deal to me.

As far as I'm concerned, its a matter of give & take,,,,I know I asked him for things he didn't wanna do but did 'em anyway for my sake. If he want a measly ass new hairdo', it ain't that big of a deal at all.

Posted by: Michelle Williams May 11 2009, 11:18 PM
As long as they suggest it and not demand it, its ok. Also their idea may look good on me, so in that case I would take the suggestion. So really it depends on how they ask and whether the style would suit me.

Posted by: MK HOLLA May 20 2009, 10:54 PM
maryluvs_thumbup.gif change is good do it he will leave ya ass u can always change it back lol maryluvs_giggle.gif

Posted by: seraphim May 21 2009, 02:48 PM
I've recently decided to go short once again and yes, he hates it, but it's what I want and he will love it anyway lol Men and this long hair thing is funny.

Posted by: Luchiano May 23 2009, 01:18 PM
QUOTE (I Am @ May 21 2009, 02:38 PM)
I've recently decided to go short once again and yes, he hates it, but it's what I want and he will love it anyway lol Men and this long hair thing is funny.

I think it's because so many men associate long hair with feminity. Even if they see a man with long her, they feel like it's a feminine quality to have.

Posted by: THE_FIRST_LADY Jun 5 2009, 06:56 PM
maryluvs_giggle.gif YES...

Posted by: Layla Feb 2 2010, 01:13 PM
I probably wouldn't change my hair color for a man especially if he isn't my husband!!!

Posted by: No One Will Do Feb 5 2010, 10:35 PM
QUOTE (I Am @ May 21 2009, 01:38 PM)
I've recently decided to go short once again and yes, he hates it, but it's what I want and he will love it anyway lol Men and this long hair thing is funny.

maryluvs_excl.gif maryluvs_laughing.gif me too and he hates it!!

Posted by: IZthe411 Feb 13 2010, 10:37 PM
I wish women would grow their hair out, but I like I fly haircut on a lady.

If the guy asks as a suggestion, then what' sthe harm.
If he slaps you down, drugs you, and takes you to the salon, chains you to a chair and has it done, then yes that's control. But a simple request is not the same thing.

If a woman spazzes and thinks that asking to change a hair style or color is the equivalent of control, I'm out.

Posted by: IZthe411 Feb 13 2010, 10:40 PM
QUOTE (Battle Of The Sexes @ May 23 2009, 12:08 PM)
I think it's because so many men associate long hair with feminity. Even if they see a man with long her, they feel like it's a feminine quality to have.

Exactly.

Dealing with women you understand that to keep their hair looking good it requires a lot of time and/or money.

I just wish more black women would avoid those chemicals that end them up with a caesar.

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