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Posted: Jul 9 2008, 02:25 PM
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Back in November I asked this girl to take what we had to that serious level. She said No, and when I asked her why. She said she didn't think it would work, nothing else.

Fast forward to this past Monday. We are at lunch, and towards the end of the date I ask her is she seeing anyone. She said no, I asked why, and about 35 questions later she confessed that when she said No to me back in November, it was because she was content with her single life, and was afraid of being committed. Somewhere between then and now she decided she wants to try to settle down, and wanted to see if we could give it a try.

Now, she really hurt me when she said no. I was messed up for a min. She was dead to me, in fact. Then I realized I'd be big about it and I decided that I could still be civil with her when I saw her in crossing. She even suggested this lunch. Now I had in my mind that I was gonna keep the convo real basic and surface level, and that worked, but I just had to ask did she have a dude! And she doesn't!!

So my question: Should I believe her- that she had cold feet back then, but realized that she messed up a good thing? (her words) Now, being a dude, that sounds like game, but my best friend and a few close females in my life told me that it's probably the truth. My sisters don't really like her, but it's because on the surface she comes off kind of stuck up, but she ain't. They just got to get to know her. One of my brothers thinks I'm caught up, because this will be about the 4th "on" of our On/Off relationship. I'm leaning towards giving her a chance, though.

So I'd like to hear your thoughts, ladies! There's no better place to get advice than from a message board LOL

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Posted: Jul 9 2008, 02:31 PM
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Oh yeah you got 2 days to answer I gotta hit her up sometime this weekend LOL


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Posted: Jul 9 2008, 03:39 PM
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Posted: Jul 9 2008, 05:22 PM
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QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 01:25 PM)
One of my brothers thinks I'm caught up, because this will be about the 4th "on" of our On/Off relationship.

This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it. dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass. Iz, how old is this chick?


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Posted: Jul 9 2008, 05:52 PM
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QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.


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Posted: Jul 10 2008, 11:58 AM
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QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it. dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass. Iz, how old is this chick?

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QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 04:52 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.

Sounds like y'all made for each other. maryluvs_coffee2.gif

Wishy washy asses. maryluvs_laughing.gif


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QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 10 2008, 08:57 PM)
QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 04:52 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.

Sounds like y'all made for each other. maryluvs_coffee2.gif

Wishy washy asses. maryluvs_laughing.gif

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Posted: Jul 10 2008, 06:19 PM
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QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 10 2008, 12:57 PM)
QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 04:52 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.

Sounds like y'all made for each other. maryluvs_coffee2.gif

Wishy washy asses. maryluvs_laughing.gif

LOL

It's all good. I'm gonna get with her and I'll get into her head, and take it from there.


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Posted: Jul 10 2008, 06:28 PM
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QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 10 2008, 05:19 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 10 2008, 12:57 PM)
QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 04:52 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.

Sounds like y'all made for each other. maryluvs_coffee2.gif

Wishy washy asses. maryluvs_laughing.gif

LOL

It's all good. I'm gonna get with her and I'll get into her head, and take it from there.

Let us know how it works out. maryluvs_smile.gif


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Posted: Jul 10 2008, 06:36 PM
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QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 11 2008, 01:19 AM)
I'll get into her head, and take it from there.

I hope you don't mean it.... LITERALLY ohmy.gif
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PAY THAT HOE NO MIND


SHE DID NOT WANT YA ASS FROM THE HUMP

NOW SHE WANT SOME OF THE IZ

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Posted: Jul 11 2008, 07:14 PM
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forget her!!

a real woman knows what she wants from the onset, not playing little fool fool games maryluvs_rolleyes0.gif .... seems like she likes a challenge and will dump you as soon as she as you sprung.


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Posted: Jul 12 2008, 11:53 PM
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QUOTE (MY EYES @ Jul 10 2008, 05:37 PM)
PAY THAT HOE NO MIND


SHE DID NOT WANT YA ASS FROM THE HUMP

NOW SHE WANT SOME OF THE IZ

BEST WISHES



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QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 10 2008, 12:57 PM)
QUOTE (IZthe411 @ Jul 9 2008, 04:52 PM)
QUOTE (Noki Ling @ Jul 9 2008, 04:22 PM)
This shit right here ^^^^ just killed it.  dry.gif

At this point, she'd get filed as a friend....with her confused ass.  Iz, how old is this chick?

She's 28. She's not the blame for all of it. I mean I'm the same way, I liked my freedom, and wasn't really serious. I went thru my phases of liking her like that, not liking her like that, etc. I'm not saying she's the blame, but when I stepped to her cause I was READY, she wasn't. Not like I'm seeing anybody, but I don't want no flaky chick.

Sounds like y'all made for each other. maryluvs_coffee2.gif

Wishy washy asses. maryluvs_laughing.gif

maryluvs_excl.gif maryluvs_dead2.gif maryluvs_rotflmao2.gif even betta!


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