Question For The Str8 Men
Time For Change
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|QUOTE (Coko @ Jul 3 2005, 01:58 PM)|
| Are you homophobic? |
Do you have any gay male friends?
How you do you feel around gay men?
What if a really close friend of family member to you he was gay?
2. I know a guy who is gay. We were cool in high school. He went away to college, was having sex with men, and now he's HIV positive, and weighs 95 lbs. We were tight in high school, but we kinda drifted apart after that. We talk probably once or twice every other month, Just to say what's up.
3. I don't feel uncomfortable, in general. I'll admit, when the gay outbreak came on this board, I was kinda . I dunno, there's always that one gay dude you know of in school or round the way, and for the most part, you don't say nothing to them, and vice versa. I was telling a few peeps on here, I guess I wasn't used to gay dudes being so open and expressive, so I kinda lashed out. Now I'm cool about it. I have met some cool dudes on this board, and have had off board discussions with them. I'm honest about my feelings on homosexuality, tho. It's wrong. But I can be civil with a gay dude.
4. See above. We were already not as tight as we were in high school. So when I found out he was gay we were already distant. I don't look at him as gay, tho. He's the same person he has always been. I would say as long as they carry themselves like a man, and be respectful of other's wishes concerning their sexuality, I would be okay with them .